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RSUs, Stock Options, Startup Equity — Do You Know What's Community Property?

Tech compensation, venture stakes, real estate — Washington's community property law requires expertise. This guide shows you what to protect.

Leanne Ozaine, CDFA® & CFP® | Specializing in tech equity divorces

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Important Disclaimer: Leanne Ozaine is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and CFP® professional who provides financial education and coaching services only. She is not an attorney and does not provide legal advice. For legal guidance specific to Washington divorce law, always consult with a qualified family law attorney licensed in Washington.

Gray Divorce in Seattle: Tech Wealth Meets Community Property

If you're over 50 and facing divorce in Seattle metro, custody battles aren't your concern—your children are grown, independent, or building careers in tech themselves. Instead, you're navigating the financial complexity of dividing Microsoft or Amazon stock options, Boeing pensions, Seattle real estate, and retirement accounts accumulated over decades—all under Washington's community property rules with ZERO state income tax.

This is especially overwhelming if you've never personally managed household finances. Perhaps your spouse handled Microsoft RSUs, Amazon stock grants, Boeing pension benefits, or real estate portfolios while you focused on family and home. Now you're facing questions like:

Microsoft RSUs, Amazon Stock, Boeing Pensions — Do You Really Know What You're Entitled To?

RSUs. Stock options. Vesting schedules. Deferred compensation. You've heard your spouse mention these terms for years. You know they're valuable.

But do you actually understand what they are? Which RSUs have vested? Which ones vest after separation? What portion of those Amazon shares is legally community property? How does Boeing's pension formula work?

Your spouse has lived with these compensation statements for 15+ years. They understand vesting schedules, exercise windows, and the tax implications of every stock grant.

You're seeing these documents for the first time — while negotiating a settlement that could be worth $1-3 million.

Tech compensation isn't magic. It's complicated — but complicated has solutions. You need someone who can decode the offer letters, translate the vesting schedules, and show you exactly what's yours under Washington community property law.

The difference between understanding tech equity and not? It can easily be $300,000-$500,000 in your final settlement — and Washington's zero state income tax makes every dollar even more valuable.

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What Makes Seattle Divorces Unique

Microsoft & Amazon Stock-Based Compensation

Seattle is home to two of the world's most valuable companies. Tech stock compensation creates uniquely complex divorce assets:

Common Microsoft/Amazon assets:

Community property rule: Stock grants awarded during marriage are community property and divided 50/50, even if they vest after divorce.

"Time rule" calculation: For stock that vests after separation: marital portion = (time from grant to separation) / (time from grant to vest).

Tech Stock Tax Advantage: Zero State Tax

Washington's zero income tax creates MASSIVE advantages when dividing or exercising tech stock:

Real-world example: Exercising $500K of Microsoft stock options? Washington resident pays $0 state tax. California resident pays $54,500 state tax. That's a $54,500 advantage!

Boeing & Aerospace Pensions

Seattle is Boeing's original headquarters. Many 50+ residents have Boeing pensions and benefits:

Boeing pensions are community property if earned during marriage and divided 50/50 using "time rule."

Seattle Real Estate: Sky-High Values

Seattle metro has experienced explosive real estate appreciation over 20-30 years:

Typical appreciation:

Community property rule: If purchased during marriage with marital funds, home is 100% community property and equity divided 50/50.

Tax advantage: Selling the home? No Washington state capital gains tax (only federal). Compare to California where you'd pay 10.9% state tax!

Other Seattle-Area Tech Companies

Beyond Microsoft and Amazon, Seattle has hundreds of tech companies creating wealth:

All stock-based compensation granted during marriage is community property.

Gray Divorce in Seattle: The Financial Reality

In Seattle, we work with clients divorcing after 20, 30, or 40+ years of marriage. Here's what makes gray divorce financially complex:

Tech Wealth Accumulated Over Decades

If your spouse worked at Microsoft or Amazon for 20-30 years:

Real Estate Wealth

Homes purchased 20-30 years ago for $200K-$400K may now be worth $1M-$3M. Community property means 50/50 split of all equity—with NO state capital gains tax when you sell.

Boeing Pension Security

Boeing pensions provide lifetime income—critical for retirement security. Community property means 50/50 split of marital portion, with survivor benefit decisions affecting both spouses' long-term security.

Can You Afford Seattle on One Income?

Post-divorce, the critical question: can one person afford Seattle's high cost of living?

Learning to Manage Tech Stock Compensation

Many of our Seattle clients—particularly spouses of tech employees—have never personally managed RSUs, stock options, or vesting schedules.

You're not alone: Tech compensation is complex, but learnable. We help you understand what you have and how to manage it.

Child Support Considerations

While our primary focus is gray divorce (50+ with grown children), some clients have high school or college-age children. Washington child support formulas apply, but Seattle's high incomes can lead to substantial amounts. However, for most 50+ clients, children are independent.

Washington Law Applies

As a Seattle resident, your divorce follows Washington community property law:

Maintenance (alimony): Courts consider statutory factors; duration varies but often substantial for long marriages.

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Your Divorce Is 80% About Money. Who's Protecting Your 80%?

Whether you've managed tech stock for years or you're learning about RSUs for the first time, we provide the education and guidance you need.

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