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Your Spouse's Federal Pension Could Be Worth More Than Your House. Do You Know What's Yours?

FERS. CSRS. TSP. Military retirement. You've heard these terms for years. You know they're valuable.

But do you actually understand what they are? Which portions were earned during marriage? What's the difference between a COAP and a military pension division order? How does the 10/10 rule affect your claim?

Your spouse has lived with these compensation statements for 20+ years. They understand vesting schedules, survivor benefits, and tax implications.

You're seeing these documents for the first time — while negotiating a settlement that could be worth $1-3 million.

Federal and military benefits aren't magic. They're complicated — but complicated has solutions. You need someone who can decode the pension statements, translate the TSP allocations, and show you exactly what's yours under Virginia's equitable distribution.

The difference between understanding federal benefits and not? It can easily be $200,000-$500,000 in your final settlement.

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Virginia: Gray Divorce with NoVA Federal Wealth & Military Pensions

If you're over 50 and facing divorce in Virginia, you're in a state with extreme Northern Virginia (NoVA) federal wealth concentration and major military presence. Your divorce likely isn't about custody battles—your children are grown and independent. Instead, your divorce centers on dividing NoVA McLean/Arlington estates, federal contractor stock options, FERS/CSRS pensions, military retirement, and substantial assets under Virginia's equitable distribution with spousal support.

What makes Virginia unique: VA features Northern Virginia (NoVA) among America's wealthiest regions, massive federal contractor presence (Lockheed Martin, Northrop Grumman, Booz Allen), federal employee pensions (FERS/CSRS), major military bases (Norfolk Naval, Pentagon, Quantico), and Richmond finance/legal wealth.

🏛️ VIRGINIA ADVANTAGE: NoVA FEDERAL MONEY + MILITARY PENSIONS

Virginia combines Northern Virginia federal contractor wealth with military pension concentration—unique gray divorce financial planning.

For gray divorce: Federal pensions and contractor stock create substantial marital estates requiring expert planning.

Understanding Virginia's Equitable Distribution

What is Equitable Distribution in Virginia?

Virginia uses equitable distribution—property divided "fairly" based on multiple factors (NOT automatic 50/50):

Marital property (subject to division):

Separate property (not divided):

Critical Financial Issues for Virginia Gray Divorce

Federal Employee Pensions (FERS/CSRS)

Northern Virginia concentrates federal employees:

Federal pensions earned during marriage require COAP for division.

Federal Contractor Wealth

Virginia dominates federal contracting:

Military Pensions

Virginia has massive military presence:

NoVA (McLean/Arlington) Ultra-Wealth

Northern Virginia features extreme wealth:

Virginia Regions Served

Northern Virginia (NoVA)

McLean, Arlington, Great Falls federal contractor wealth, Pentagon employees, $1M-$10M+ estates.

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Richmond Metro

Capital One headquarters, finance/banking, law firms, state government, $400K-$1M+ homes.

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Virginia Beach & Hampton Roads

Norfolk Naval Base (world's largest), military pensions, oceanfront living, $300K-$800K+ homes.

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Charlottesville & UVA

University of Virginia academic wealth, TIAA-CREF pensions, historic charm, $400K-$1M+ homes.

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Before You Agree to Anything — See What This Actually Means For Your Life

In a divorce, dividing assets is only step one. This helps you understand how those assets will actually support your life.

Know what you'll actually have to live on

Calculate your real post-divorce income — including federal pension share, TSP division, and earning potential — so you negotiate from facts, not fear.

Never miss a document or account

Document gathering checklists tell you exactly what to bring to your attorney — so you walk in prepared, not panicked.

Know if you can really afford to keep the house

Map out your real expenses as a single person — before you fight for something you can't actually maintain on federal retirement income alone.

Identify everything you own — and what your spouse might be hiding

The asset identification system helps you find FERS, TSP, contractor stock, and property you might not even know exists.

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Virginia's combination of NoVA federal wealth, military pensions, and contractor stock requires expert planning for 50+ divorces.

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